Decide
Making a Decision
How To Play
Hold a decision in mind. Run it both ways.
For each card, choose the colour it would be if you say Yes - then do the same for No.
Compare the two. The path with more Green is often the better one, but sometimes it's about tweaking the details or negotiating new T's and C's to push Red and Orange CARDS up into Green for the option you prefer.
If I say Yes
Where do my cards go if I say Yes?
Competence
What I can do; capability; mastery; understanding.
Autonomy
My choices; agency; being myself without masking.
Relatedness
Belonging; connection; love; "we are together".
Dignity
Respect; fair treatment; freedom from shame; being seen.
Safety
Freedom from danger; physical/emotional security; comfort.
If I say No
Where do my cards go if I say No?
Competence
What I can do; capability; mastery; understanding.
Autonomy
My choices; agency; being myself without masking.
Relatedness
Belonging; connection; love; "we are together".
Dignity
Respect; fair treatment; freedom from shame; being seen.
Safety
Freedom from danger; physical/emotional security; comfort.
Comparison
Think of a decision you need to make. Assign colours to each card for both scenarios.